Appearances

This post is going to be strictly about the way I look :P

I now know that my mood depends on the way I perceive myself in that moment.

Let's say I bump into a cute guy in my office building. If I don't think I'm well dressed that day, I probably won't look at him or talk to him or ... anything !

But if I AM feeling good about the way I look them I might just look at him with eyes that say «Hey! Come over here! ».

So what makes the difference between feeling hot and feeling dull ? Who the hell knows.

I just got my hair cut. And I mean CUT... as in less than 2 inches. So here I am cursing my hair stylist for talking to me instead of concentrating on my hair. Now, I feel boyish. So I feel dull. So I don't look at people in the eyes, cuz I'm not confident.

On the other hand, people have not ceased to tell me I look cute with my hair short. Like round or heart-shaped faces are the only ones who can leave their hair short like that. And I'm like : what are you BLIND !!!

Anyway... I think it should be illegal for our brains to lie to us that way :) I think everyone should see themselves exactly as they are : beautiful, rich and interesting, worthwhile people.